Wedding Photography Prep Guide
A simple guide to help you feel relaxed, prepared, and fully present on your wedding day.
Big Picture
Your wedding day should feel like you — joyful, emotional, a little imperfect, and full of real moments. This guide walks you through how photography fits into your timeline so everything feels easy and natural.
A few key things to remember:
- Build in a little buffer time — it keeps the day relaxed.
- Tell me what matters most to you: people, moments, and details.
- Once the day starts, your job is to be present. I’ll handle the photos.
Getting Ready – Details & Prep +
Ideal coverage: 60–90 minutes
This is when I photograph your details, getting-ready moments, and the quiet build-up before everything begins.
If you can, have these items gathered in one spot:
- Dress / suit / veil
- Rings
- Invitation suite / program
- Shoes, jewelry, hair pieces
- Bouquet / boutonniere
- Any sentimental items (letters, gifts, heirlooms)
A few tips:
- Keep one area near a window as tidy as possible — that’s usually where I’ll photograph details.
- Ask your wedding party to keep bags, food, and extras off to the sides or in another room.
- If you’re exchanging letters or gifts, we can plan to photograph those moments too.
First Look or No First Look +
You absolutely don’t have to do a first look — it’s completely your choice.
If you choose a first look:
- We’ll usually plan it 1.5–2 hours before the ceremony.
- It gives you a quiet moment together and time for portraits before things get busy.
- We can often do wedding party photos before the ceremony too, so you can get to your reception sooner.
If you skip the first look:
- Your first moment seeing each other will be during the ceremony.
- We’ll plan extra time for portraits and wedding party photos after the ceremony.
Ceremony Tips +
Your ceremony is the heart of the day, and my goal is to document it quietly and respectfully.
A few helpful ideas:
- Ask your officiant if they’re comfortable with me moving gently around the space when needed.
- Consider a short “unplugged ceremony” reminder so guests stay present and don’t block the aisle with phones.
- Tell me ahead of time about any special unity moments, readings, or traditions so I can be in the right spot.
Family Formals +
Family photos are important, and we’ll keep them organized and efficient.
To keep them smooth and stress-free:
- Make a list of the family groupings you’d like (for example: couple + parents, couple + immediate family, couple + grandparents).
- Choose one person from each side of the family who knows everyone and can help gather people.
- Let family members know ahead of time when and where we’ll do these photos.
Depending on the number of combinations, family formals usually take about 20–30 minutes.
Wedding Party & Couple Portraits +
Wedding party:
- Plan for about 20–30 minutes.
- We’ll do a mix of classic posed photos and fun, candid shots.
Couple portraits:
- Ideally, we’ll have 20–30 minutes together without interruptions.
- If we can, I love taking a few minutes around sunset for soft, golden light.
You don’t need to know how to pose — I’ll guide you, keep things moving, and make sure you both feel comfortable and natural.
Reception & Candid Moments +
During your reception, I focus on genuine moments — the hugs, laughter, dancing, and everything in between.
We’ll make sure to capture:
- Grand entrance
- First dances
- Toasts and speeches
- Cake cutting or special moments
- Open dancing and guest candids
If you’re planning a special moment (sparkler exit, surprise performance, etc.), it helps if one person gives me a quiet heads-up so I don’t miss it.
Weather & Backup Plans +
New England weather can be unpredictable — and that’s okay. Some of the most beautiful photos happen in unexpected weather.
If the forecast looks tricky:
- Clear umbrellas photograph beautifully and still let in light.
- We’ll work together to choose covered or indoor locations if needed.
- I’ll adapt my approach so you still get romantic, timeless images no matter what the forecast says.
After the Wedding – What to Expect +
Once the day is over, my job is just getting started.
After your wedding:
- You’ll typically receive a small sneak peek within the first few days (depending on the season and your package).
- Your full gallery is usually delivered within 4–8 weeks — I’ll confirm your exact timeframe in your contract or email.
- Your images will be delivered in an online gallery where you can download, share, and order prints.
- Album and wall art options are available if you’d like help designing something special.
Staying in Touch +
If anything changes — timeline, locations, important details — just let me know.
You can reach out anytime if you:
- Adjust your schedule or venues
- Add events or special moments
- Have questions about light, timing, or locations
I’m here to support you throughout the planning process, not just show up on the wedding day.

